Yes, I read this thread. It strikes me as primarily a very heated discussion on the term OPP and its connotations. The thread is part of why I titled my post OPP/OVP but tried to use the less loaded "same-sex policy" (SSP?) in my post. I would especially like input from anyone who mutually agreed to limit outside relationships to same-sex interactions. I got the impression from AnnabelMore and others that those kinds of agreements, especially at the start of opening a relationship up, are not unheard of. What I haven't read is how those agreements worked out, what made them difficult/eventually unworkable, etc. My situation is not one where a threatened male partner is demanding an OPP.
Hope that provides some clarification!