You dont sound whiny, and sex and hormones are not just for teenagers! Good grief, I'm 56 and have one of the highest libidos in this greater Boston metropolis.
Thank god, so does my newest lover (he's 59), because I was wearing my gf out. She's more horny now that the pressure is off, just sayin.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags (poly, F, 61) loving miss pixi (poly, F, 39) since January 2009, living together since 2013
also loving Punk (42, M) since Oct 2015 (he has recently downgraded us to friends)
"Master," (mono, 34), miss pixi's Dom for 2 years