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Old 02-06-2012, 10:45 PM
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Originally Posted by bassman View Post
There was another incident at work this week, where, in a joke, a guy groped her bum, and she came home and told me.

All these things , this attention are good for her esteem, (and libido!), and I'm encouraging them.
Umm, I would be careful there. Just because you have a voyeuristic desire for your wife to be with someone else doesn't mean that a co-worker groping her at work is a good thing. You don't want to encourage her to allow sexual harassment at her place of work. If a guy gets the sense it's okay, and starts taking liberties, it usually escalates into something much more serious and against her wishes, and I'm sure you don't want that.
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