You are now ready for the Jedi Poly trials. (Man I'm a geek!!) Seriously though, you hit it right on the head. Open and honest communication is key. I'm not going to wish you luck, because I'm sure you all will work this out.
If you have any other questions, please ask. Also, let us know how things are going. I know I LOVE seeing another successful poly group out there.
Live life to the fullest 'cause you never know if you're gonna wake up tomorrow!