Greetings from Devilman
I am new here, but I am pondering starting a poly relationship. My wife and I have had several long and thoughtful conversations about polyamory, and we have come to the agreement that we can handle me being poly. She can't see herself being with another man but she can see me with another woman. We've even discussed possible procreation with my partner (the only girl she will allow to have my spawn being her cousin). Which isn't a problem as I am really attracted to her cousin.
But there lies the problem. The only woman I can picture myself being poly with is her cousin. I've had feelings for her for a while. I am just kind of lost in the ether as poly is still an infant concept to many people. She know the wife and I have been talking about it, and in casual conversation the cousin has mentioned she could do a poly relationship(even with us if the wife wasn't her cousin).
I am just looking for some helpful direction