I've thought of this but never asked
When I read the title of this post, I thought it was rather interesting. My husband seldom wears his and I usually do. I feel like I should wear it because it would feel like lying not to have it on. This is just my preference, but I also feel that its very inhibiting to meeting any one new. I know that being honest and up front is important. I suppose I will continue to wear it and I guess be pleasantly surprised if I do meet anyone. Maybe we need to go to some poly gatherings. I think it would help if I ventured outside of my little world.