See, that's why I kind of prefer pan-sexual. I like curvy women, I like strong men, but I've also been attracted to transgendered men and women, adrogynous men and women. I've not really been as worried about gender,and not worried about sticking to the polar sides of gender when there's so much in between!
Me: Late 30s pansexual poly.
DH: My husband of 19 yrs and father of 3 teen girls.
DC: LDR of +4 year