I agree that maybe this man is someone that you connect with more than others in the past. Maybe your body is telling you that you have more to lose with him and that is a bigger threat.
I agree also in doing some body work along with therapy. At the very least do some journaling and letting the feelings wash over you, being conscious of what they bring up for you. Perhaps there is a hidden message here that has not been revealed yet that could be very helpful in the long run.
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