Hubby wears his pretty much all the time. I got him one years ago for an anniversary that is made of a special metal that won't interfere with electronics work! Me, I always have ring on. I have a couple though. I'm cheap, not worried about money or diamonds so as long as I like it and it doesn't turn my finger green I'm good! Mostly I wear a silver one with clear crystals or a silver and turquoise one.
I've never NOT been up front about being married though. Even online in non dating situations. Sure being married might turn some off but being bi sometimes turns those on that I'm not interested in. I figure that's life!
Me: Late 30s pansexual poly. DH: My husband of 17 yrs and father of children. DC: LDR of +2 year