Hello and Welcome!!
I had a few questionss....just curious.
1- how long were you married?
2- how much time passed between the time you moved out of the home you were in with your husband and the time you moved in with them?
If 2 is less than 25% of 1, then I suggest you move out now....for yourself because you need more time on your own and for them to be able to figure out what is going on with them.
If 2 is more than 25% of 1, then I would suggest you move out now....for them to be able to figure out what is going on with them.
Either way, if this relationship is going to have a chance, it's probably best to go ahead and move out.
The key to life is in being fully engaged and peacefully detached simultaneously and authentically in each moment.