Hmm... well, can you list out for us the major ways, if any, in which this relationship is different from ones you've had in the past, you're a different person than you were in the past, and/or your life circumstances are different than they were in the past?
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.