Originally Posted by nycindie
I think SC explained it really well:And, I have to say, it warmed my heart to read it! I am so happy to see that someone feels this way. I didn't roll that way when I was single either. It is in keeping with how I approach poly as a solo. If I were married and pursuing poly relationships outside my marriage, I would see it the same way. This gives me hope that there are other married poly peeps out there whose philosophies are compatible with mine, so maybe I won't have to keep turning people down because they tell me their wife will always be their first priority.
No, I don't think SC explained it well, that's why I asked for more info.
I understand why SC is offended that people would assume her "secondary" relationships are less important than her relationship with her husband.
BUT there was nothing in her friend's comment to indicate that her friend was actually making those assumptions.