On a another side note, she's very friendly with a girl from New Zealand, T, who is also into the evangelical stuff.
Now, this girl has had several boyfriends in the past few years, and she tells my wife a lot about what goes on.
The other my my wife, M, says:
"T says I'm her only friend that she can tell about her sleeping with the boyfriend"
Me:"thats because all Ts friends are from church, and that makes them judgemental and disapproving of the sex"
Wife "ermm, yes, actually, that IS true"
So, a small victory for me, at least my wife is not , I hope, AS judgemental about sex outside marriage as she used to be.
Male M, struggling noob.