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Old 01-30-2012, 07:00 AM
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You most certainly have a right to ask for anything you want. You can't control whether anyone else sees it as demanding. If someone accuses you of that, you simply assert that you asked.

I'm wondering why boyfriend didn't encourage you to talk to her directly, since you have said he agrees it's reasonable.

[and, um, what redpepper said]
Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own...
Robert A. Heinlein

Me: female, bi, (formerly hinge of a vee)
with FirstBoyFriend (FBF)(moderately long-distance)
and no longer with CurrentBoyFriend (CBF)(who now lives in a house far away-with stairs I can't climb)
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