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Old 01-30-2012, 02:34 AM
ThatGirlInGray ThatGirlInGray is offline
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Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: Northern Cali
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Hi Garblin, welcome!

You said:
I don't know how to go about finding people who I'm attracted to and are okay with the idea.
and then you said:
I accidentally found myself in a situation where I have three separate women who like me right now
It sounds to me like you're halfway there! You can't know who will and won't be okay with it until you ask. If you're still in the "Getting To Know You" stage you could bring up a hypothetical situation ("I know someone who dated more than one person at a time..."), or if you're already fairly close you could go straight to, "I really like you and I want to date you, but there are two other people I also want to date at the moment. How would you feel about that?"

Since monogamy hasn't worked for you, makes sense to be honest about what you think might work, right? Good luck!
Pan Female, Hinge in a V between my mono (straight) husband, Monochrome and my poly (pan) partner, ThatGuyInBlack
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