Red: Veto as in, if they do not like or have reservations about the person he intends on "getting to know better", they can ultimately say no go. But since they all act safe and cautious, this never really needs to happen. The wife told me that she used her veto only once in 7 years, with her other husband. My b/f offered me the same courtesy which I thought was very thoughtful. But ultimately, I don't think I'd need it, he's very respectful of his mates' and my feelings. So NOT the kind of veto where they could kick me to the curb anytime they want, lol.
I tried being reasonable. I didn't like it. ~Clint Eastwood~