Hello and welcome.
I have lots of questions to ask... need some support from others who understand. esp from mono spouse.
Glad that you found a good place in your relationship again after such a rough start. As I am the poly one in my relationships, I won't go into detail, but if you ever in need of a mono mindset and unable to find this special support, I will be happy to mediate between my two mono men and you if there are specific questions you like to discuss. They could offer the point of view of men who feel comfortable in a MFM vee.
All the best in your endeavour, Phy.
Facts: 30, female, bi, v-type relationship with Sward (husband, straight, mono) and Lin (boyfriend, straight, mono), poly-fi and co-primary.