Originally Posted by nycindie
I agree - you have a good attitude and it is clear you have done a lot o work on yourselves and your marriage. I would just be cautious about the married colleague, if they start a relationship. She would do well to find out whether he is open with his spouse or not. Last thing you want to encourage is your wife being a secret mistress of a married man who is lying to his wife.
Thanks for the advice and I agree with you on this. I don't think he is lying to his wife though but it's a good question for her to ask.
I know she does not want to break up a marriage.