Originally Posted by wildflowers
I know that we will never have as much time together as I would like, and I know that we will always be more hidden than I would like. It is likely that this will always trouble me; I am prepared to have to deal with it.
But given that it is you who will put the constraints on this relationship, it seems to me it would be helpful for you to state what they are – how much time you are prepared to give.
Clear expectations are for sure very helpful. This is a good starting point for a long deep conversation. I hope you can get some answers and direction. I know I hate uncertainty...when I love, it's all or nothing.