At first, I was like "oh no.. not another husband trying to push his wife into poly when she doesn't want to be, just so he can have a girlfriend and not feel guilty." Then I finished reading and realized that she had done something like that before without the ethical part, and that you were finally accepting of her nature, and trying to support her.
Gralson: my husband (works out of town).
Auto: my girlfriend (lives with her husband Zoffee).
The most dangerous phrase in the English language is "we've always done it this way."