Originally Posted by BrigidsDaughter
You said that you wouldn't play with anyone else but Keith while you were there; which is fair to both of them.
That's how I felt, but she's told me flat out that she would prefer me to not go at all, so no matter what I'm going to feel guilty (whether it is logical or not is another issue).
- If I go and only play with Keith - I feel guilty for going at all, and for limiting what Keith can do with my limitations.
- If I go and do whatever seems fun for Keith and I - I feel guilty for not respecting a boundary that could make going acceptable.
- If I don't go at all - I feel guilty for not doing the one thing Keith has been genuinely excited about in a while.