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Old 01-27-2012, 07:05 PM
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Sometimes you just need to go. Sometimes your lover just needs to sit with their uncomfortable feelings and trust that you won't break any agreements. You said that you wouldn't play with anyone else but Keith while you were there; which is fair to both of them. You never said that you wouldn't go and honestly, as uncomfortable as she might be, she said she was okay and you made a commitment. What she needs to see now is that you can go and keep your promise; she may not realize that, but the longer you both put it off, the harder it will be because she won't be dealing with/ working through the emotions.
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