Hey Macbeth, meeting people through the computer isn't for everyone. It's not my favourite way to meet people. I'd rather develop a real connection with someone in my real life and see where it goes from there.
I prefer to look at myself as being open to possiblities rather than actively looking. We all develop relationships at different rates and are more comfortable in some situations than others.
I agree with finding poly friendly groups in your area. The more people you meet the more likely it is that you will make that conncetion.