Something I wrote earlier to Justme, but it is worth saying again maybe, is that your being betrayed must really mess with you. I think that the foundation of your world comes apart when you are betrayed by the people you love and trust most. It is a hard thing to heal about. I don't think you are very juvenile, but just coming out of the other end of experiencing deceit. You all seem like good people and like you are trying to do the right things. Good job and best wishes.