It took me around 10 years to find what I have. I intend to hold on to it. I think that mostly solid poly relationships occur out of finding friends in the poly community. Anyone that is really poly identified rather than liking the idea of a poly dating lifestyle while they either wait for monogamy or because they don't want something long term and committed don't seem to find partners through dating sites.
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