Originally Posted by SeventhCrow
I'd ask your friend why she thinks her dislike of this other person would create any obligation in you to behave in any specific fashion. This other person cancelled a date with your friend, sure--what's that got to do with you? Does she think you need her permission to date people? Why does she seem to have a problem with you deciding how you'll interact with others on your own? Why does she think she has some control over you?
I don't have an answer for you. I was trying to work things out and talk with her to see if I was missing something in why she was feeling the way she is. All I could get her to tell me though was that she needed space. So space is what I will give her. She knows where I am if she comes to the place where she wants to have a friendship with me.