Frustrated single female
Being a single female who self indentifies as poly. I find it hard to find men who understands the concept of Polyamry. Most assume I would exspect then Bi, or sexual with anyone and everyone. Or they assume they can't find a partner that is female.
I have had my share of bad realationship where I left them open and they still would cheat and use the "but you said we where open" anolgy to excuse their bad behaviors.
I am curious from working long term couples how they got past those 'dating hurdles" to find love with like minded people