Hey Gwen, if I wasn't so polysaturated at the moment, I'd be asking you for this guy's SN on okc. He sounds like my type!
I've never studied Tantra, but I'm really drawn to Asian spirituality and I sure am highly sexual.
Plus, I'm really into learning new things, kinks, and all the fun and personal growth that can be had sexually outside of mere vanilla in and out. Sacred sex is a big interest of mine. One of my lovers, The Ginger, is really into that idea as well, he's highly spiritual (pagan), poetic, romantic, and that's a big draw for me.
I wonder if I have run across this new interest of yours in my social circles...
Also, remembering how important it is to you to find a local lover without ED, if I were in your shoes, I wouldn't write him off just yet... He *could* be just the ticket.
But that's just my opinion, and you're you, so... yeah. Go with your gut.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags (poly, F, 61) loving miss pixi (poly, F, 39) since January 2009, living together since 2013
also loving Punk (42, M) since Oct 2015 (he has recently downgraded us to friends)
"Master," (mono, 34), miss pixi's Dom for 2 years