Third vee here.
You sound much like either of my men. They were friends first, while I was dating first bf. I dated them sequentially, and now it's simultaneously.
Welcome to the forum.
Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own...
Robert A. Heinlein
Me: female, bi, (formerly hinge of a vee)
with FirstBoyFriend (FBF)(moderately long-distance)
and no longer with CurrentBoyFriend (CBF)(who lives in the apartment building next door)