I am definitely taking all of your thoughts and opinions into consideration.
I will speak with him again when I can and hopefully either work something out, or at least figure out our feelings and where we want this relationship to go, etc.
Truly, thank you all for your opinions and help.
It's really tough not knowing anyone personally poly to discuss these things with. I wish I had a close friend or someone I could talk to about these things. But I suppose that's why you have a community like this.
Seriously, thank you.