Hello and welcome! I'm fairly new to this forum as well, but I've been the hinge of a Vee for longer than I've known the word "polyamory" (yes, we're backwards, it just sort of happened, and THEN I started reading about it). If you don't mind me asking, what's the appeal for you in being in a MFM Vee? Asking that question of people already IN a relationship doesn't usually get very far-the answer centers around the person (as it should) rather than the relationship configuration.