Yeah, well it isn't working for all of you if only two our of three agree on something. That's not an agreement, that's a dictatorship. I don't know why you think you need therapy in all this, as you are being quite reasonable, while they are not listening to you and dismissing your needs. Yes, poly is talk-talk-talk, what's wrong with that? Why stew in this bullshit and feel like you have to put up with they want while they don't pay attention to what you want? Yes, by all means, speak up. If it didn't really bother you, you wouldn't have posted here about it.
Independent solo polyamorist seeking lover-friends willing to invest in friendship, companionship, and love, but without a need for partnership.
Never confuse commitment with exclusivity, love with ownership, nor sex with intimacy!
For me, it is far better to grasp the Universe as it really is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying and reassuring.
~ Carl Sagan