Check out some threads on "new relationship energy," "NRE," "unicorns," and "triads."
It's as common as mud for triads to go this way, the unicorn being more into one partner than another.
Get yourself another bf or gf and have your own NRE!
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags, F, 60, poly-dating, loving and living with
miss pixi, F, 38
Punk, 41, M (dating since Oct 2015)
and a few more casual relationships