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Old 05-20-2009, 01:40 AM
TankDiveGirl TankDiveGirl is offline
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The issue wasn't the holding of hands, the issue is that none of us are supposed to be out because she's not comfortable with the general public knowing that we're poly... or more specifically, she's not comfortable with people knowing that we're poly that she hasn't told. I understand this; she wants to have control over who knows and who doesn't, and she also wants to be the one to decide which of our groups of friends that he gets introduced to and in which order. This is okay with me; and it's okay with him, because we understand the importance of moving at the pace of the least comfortable individual... we just thought we were being more discrete than we were, apparently.
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