Is it possible to ask him what is going on for him next time you meet? Is he open to telling you honestly? If this position you are in doesn't match up with who you are and what you need, might I suggest ending it now? If you are anything like me, you need someone to help you feel secure by being around and responsive to your reaching out and excitment for what you are creating. That isn't needy and insecure to some people. Maybe to him it seems so, but others will find your passion and eagerness endearing and lovable. They might even be similar to you.
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