Originally Posted by SourGirl
When you learn to let go of that 'angst' then there is a certain calmness, and acceptance that comes about. Self-discipline is also a handy tool.
Very good point. Loving someone is a selfish matter. Sometimes its kind of cozy and warm to love without anyone knowing it or the person knowing it. Its a kind of secret joy and yes, a calm acceptance. I would even say a comfort. No one can take that away. When I am feeling like that for someone its almost the self discipline that makes it better.