Originally Posted by rubyfish
...because I'm the poly one ... I'm looking for books to help my husband understand how I feel and what I want.
There are a couple of specialty email lists:
PolyMono · Polyamorous/Monogamous Support
"This is a support group for monogamous people in a committed relationship with someone who is polyamorous."
livingpolymono · Polyamorists with Monogamous Partners
"This list supports all people concerned with the challenges of poly/mono relating. However, it exists primarily to provide support to polyamorous people with monogamous partners."