Originally Posted by jasminegld
There are specialty lists:
PolyMono · Polyamorous/Monogamous Support
"This is a support group for monogamous people in a committed relationship with someone who is polyamorous."
livingpolymono · Polyamorists with Monogamous Partners
"This list supports all people concerned with the challenges of poly/mono relating. However, it exists primarily to provide support to polyamorous people with monogamous partners."
I suggest you invite her to join PolyMono, while you don't join it. That gives her space to talk to others without you listening in.
Both lists have message archives and resource files.
good info Jasmine. Could you add those links to the book and site recommendation thread that is stickied at the top of the forum? Thanks.
I would also recommend doing a search here for "mono/poly." The tag cloud has it.