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Old 01-18-2012, 06:26 PM
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Originally Posted by xxgoodtimescouple View Post
I have just entered a triad with my BF and his new girlfriend. Crossing my fingers we eventually gel.
Hmm, wouldn't it make more sense to see if you gel first, before you "enter" a relationship with someone, especially a triad which is usually the most doomed form of poly?
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