ForestFloor, I think you and hubby should
RUN AND DON'T LOOK BACK!
She is toxic and a manipulator.
I don't think you even owe her an explanation nor anything else. She's a grown-up, so let her take responsibility for her life and her own mental health.
The world opens up... when you do.
Oh, oh, can't you see? Love is the drug for me. ~Bryan Ferry
"Love is that condition in which another person's happiness is essential to your own." ~Robert Heinlein
Last edited by nycindie; 01-18-2012 at 07:52 PM.