It is sort of funny you guys said that because in different words that is a lot how the conversation went. Him explaining to me how even though there are a lot of people in his life it does not make him care less for one when he is caring more for another. I am thinking I am making the right decision with how I am going about this with him.
I am really not having trouble with the whole poly thing, or meeting other people who are poly (I have been dating a bit myself). Its not strange though that I am not one of those people who has 'always known this is how I am' and more 'I think I may have stumbled along something that really fits me' is it?