Have you both read sarahfina's thread? Any simliarities to your situation...or points to help start a conversation.
Has anything written here helped the 2 of you in broaching or promoting difficult conversations?
How early or late in your relationship with your bf did you realize that the hierarchy of primary or secondary didn't work ...both were equals? Was that ever talked about?
I thought he ( kinda) wanted to re shape the dynamic and the demands of time, energy, focus to reflect a more casual or secondary relationship....perhaps similar to how yours started out in the beginning dating your bf...minus the nre. once a week or once a month dates or something...reconnect time.
What types of things have the 2 of you done in the past to improve your marriage?.....the book suggestion by Anne triggered this thought/edit
Last edited by dingedheart; 01-17-2012 at 08:32 AM.