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Old 01-17-2012, 12:21 AM
Preia Preia is offline
Join Date: Jan 2012
Posts: 10

It really strikes me that he is still riding the fence and applying pressure to you. If he had wanted to let you walk and be with the other girl, then he should have put on his big boy pants and done it when you put your foot down. Not placate you, then placate her, then placate you... You see this is just going to keep hurting everyone. It may be time for him to come to the understanding that while he can have other partners, he can't have THAT partner and have you too. My husband and I both have a list of THOSE partners that we can't have. Usually because they are crazy-making for us to be in a relationship with. This ranges from those who actively try to get the hinge partner to themselves to those who are just too emotionally draining for us to have anything left for ourselves or others.
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