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Old 01-16-2012, 11:13 PM
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I don't think I can itemize it like that.

I can tell you that it took nearly two years for me to feel comfortable enough with Possibility to consider more than a hug or a friendship kiss. Some of this was due to my being new to being actively poly and partly due to a HUGE bump (it would have bottomed out a HumVee) in the road very early on in our 'getting to now you' stage.

Late last year we had to take a life-kicking-you-in-the-teeth break for several months and are just now talking about starting things back up.

To summarize, I go slower than a snail with relationships. I've been burned too many times to go any faster.
There are as many ways to do polyamory as there are people practicing it!
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