I am certain of their commitment to me. I just mean I would be very surprised if they came to me and said they wanted to see someone else. It's not beyond the realm of possibility that they could do so, but it would be a surprise.
When I was younger it was not my fantasy at all. When I was younger, I couldn't imagine (and I tried) how one woman would be enough for two men. When I was younger, all the men I had ever known had desires much higher than mine. I would have been worn out trying to accommodate two of them. My men are not driven by sex in the least.
Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own...
Robert A. Heinlein
Me: female, bi, (formerly hinge of a vee)
with FirstBoyFriend (FBF)(moderately long-distance)
and no longer with CurrentBoyFriend (CBF)(who lives in the apartment building next door)