Fluid bonding seems a bit early here no? I know I am repeating what others have said, but it takes two tests to be sure.
I guess you could go ahead and do it anyway and then she would have to suffer with the condom issue not you (she would have to protect herself with her husband). You would pay the price for her lack of trust, and all the emotions that come along with cheating. She might just see it that way.
I think this is an act of NRE really. You have been together for six months and aren't seeing the broader picture... some of you posts sound whiny and like you are stamping your foot. Big time NRE no? Be patient and wait it out. Good things come to those that are respectful, considerate and empathetic.
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