For me there are different kinds of love. This was described by someone on the forum here and I do not know where it was. The love I have with my wife is deep and true, and we ( after 16 years together) are starting to finally make the inroads I so want with her and talking. The love I have for my GF may still be NRe but I don't think so cause it has been to long now, it is different. But when i make love to them it's also different and I wouldn't trade that now for anything. Both of my ladies (and I do not mean that in an owning sense) have their very unique qualities and that makes me more complete.
I cannot really compare the 2 of them nor do I want to but the love is different and I do not know how to explain that. And actually that's ok, they each bring that to me and I enjoy that.