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Old 01-15-2012, 01:48 AM
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Originally Posted by cheryl View Post
I do wonder if it isnt hardwired into the brains of certain men, although I realize that sounds sexist.
I think not being able to handle your partner being with another person IS hardwired into the brains of some men AND women. So, not a sexist statement, just incomplete. Just like being mono or poly might be hardwired in most individuals.

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Originally Posted by Icewraithonyx View Post
For me, I think it was the fact that Wife had been intimate with other people before we got married and she still loved me enough to get married. So I guess those relationship didn't damage our marriage. I'm taking it on faith that existing relationships won't neccessarily be detrimental either.
This is an excellent point. Thanks.
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