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Old 01-13-2012, 06:18 PM
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Can you cancel the trip and still get a refund? If I were them I would prefer the honesty and bravery up front and delayed gratification on the trip versus being blindsided by tension or maybe even an explosion while I was already there. It's not dumping on them to just let them know you guys are going through a rough patch right now. Poly doesn't work without loads of comunication and honesty, so if you think it's a path you might want to go down at some point, why not get a head start on the tough but necessary components now? Again, if they're good friends they'll respect you more for honesty, not less.
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