"I think her point was that if you are spending 4-5 days a week with your other lovers and Kinda is home everyday, it might make sense that he is feeling less committed to your marriage. "
Oh. That makes much more sense.
I used to spend more time with my husband and less time with my OSOs. It used to be around 2 times a week when we first started dating. It slowly increased when Kinda got his girlfriend.
"Are your OSO's committed to promoting the health of your marriage? "
Initially, yes. In the present day, no.
They've become more distant.
Last edited by MrsPOd; 01-13-2012 at 03:52 PM.